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We first have to understand a few things

1. No woman is naturally a “Bitch” just as you are not innately a “scumbag” or an “A-hole”. I could be wrong but I am just giving you the benefit of the doubt, so just shut up, say thanks and go with me on this one, okay big boy? Great!

2. A woman will put on a cold front or a rough exterior known as a “Bitch shield” because of 2 main reasons.

A. To protect herself from being impregnated by low value Beta sperm
B. As a test to determine if a specific male she is interacting with is Alpha(High status) or Beta(Low status)

As you know, a woman is sub-consciously hard-wired to only want to mate with a male who is Alpha and not Beta as this is conducive to not only her survival for the short term but more importantly to the long term survival of her genetic material.

So how does a bitch shield offer her this “protection” as well as filter out males that are Alpha from those that are Beta?

Well that’s real simple.

Beta males are reactive, weak, insecure, lack self confidence, drive, ambition and have a score of other traits that are “non conducive” to successful adaptation to a given environment and enhanced survivability within it. A few or more of these qualities usually come out when they are faced with an opposing force like a smoking hot, high quality, independent, intelligent, witty, smart, out spoken, assertive, no BS type of woman. In other words a woman’s “Bitch shield” makes them nervous, angered or intimidated and hence” exposes” them for what they truly are-chumps!

On the other hand, a bitch shield also exposes if a male is Alpha because Alpha males in the face of abrasiveness, opposition, bitchiness are cool, calm, unreactive, indifferent and always maintain civility in the face of stress or difficulty, rather than get angry like little juvenile delinquent boys.

So can you see how by putting up this “Shield” it really allows a woman to decipher the true nature of a male and helps her determine if he is sex worthy or not? Good!

So next time you encounter a woman who is initially a bit on the “harsh or cold side”, how do you think you should react?

Like…

A. “You’re a bitch!” or B “Haha that’s cute…if you want to put on a bitch shield, don’t forget to stand like this”(Put your left arm on your hip and stand like a bratty or spoiled woman).

You got that right! B

Also remember this- a woman wants to know that you are persistent and not a quitter or a man who will retreat with his tail between his legs at the first sign of opposition. The way she determines who is tenacious and persistent or manly and who isn’t is by putting up a test that determines this. This would be the “Bitch shield”!

Another way to look at this is a No means a NO for a Beta male but a “Not yet” for an Alpha male. Which one are you?

“The Triple D model” for social set domination. Owning large sets has never been so easy!

Hi,

As promised to you, here is a breakdown of our “Triple D model for social set domination“. By using this model you will be able to walk up to any large social circle where your “object of desire” is located in and walk out with her on your arms and the rest of her social circle in the palm of your hands. So without further delay, here are the 3 D’s in order of execution to take over large and difficult social circles. If you can do this, then your game is at a much higher level than most others.

The 3 D’s or steps to eating large sets for breakfast.

1. Exhibit Dominance
2. Divide and Conquer
3. Demonstrate Value

Let’s go ahead and disect each one in detail.

1. Exhibit dominance to the social circle

The first thing you must do, as soon you enter a social venue and the “field of view” of the women and people there is to convey confidence, dominance and leadership.

The reason for this is because remember, seduction starts well before “Hi” or what ubiquitously is known as the “The Opener”. This is because humans have long distance, social intelligence which they use to gather a lot of information about each other from afar, based on each other’s non-verbal communication and behaviors.

Consequently both the men and women will start to size you up, based on your body language and non-verbal mannerisms as soon as you enter the venue. They will then start to make assessments of where you belong in the scheme of things or in the social hierarchy. In other words, they will decide whether you are of high social value(Alpha) or low social value(Beta), based on your body language and other non-verbal mannerisms.

They will then quickly make a decision based on this, whether to welcome your entry and stay into their comfortable little social net or eject you upon entry. They will also use this information to further decide how they will treat you once inside their social circle.

Specifically,  they will either treat you with respect, because you have telegraphed leadership and dominance in the venue and exhibited social proof from its patrons( high value behavior) or as an “Average Joe” because they saw you being ejected from a few sets before you approached theirs and observed that your non verbal traits and mannerisms indicate low social value compared with those exhibited by the other male patrons.

A cardinal rule in social interactions:

People naturally want to align themselves with those that have higher social value than them. I am not talking about simply “survival value” but those that are smarter, more driven, more intelligent, more interesting, more worldly, more cultured, more financially successful, more emotionally successful, physically fit, calmer, more relaxed when in dire straits, etc.

Why? Because it automatically rubs off on them and causes them to aspire to become better people.

Consequently, once we have demonstrated this Pre Opener Value we can then successfully go up to a set and be guaranteed that its members will be more than welcoming to our approach.

Now here are some specific ways to further exhibit dominance upon approaching the set.

Spit out this opener with a very playful but dominant undertone.

“So are you guys like the cool crowd in here or “A-listers”? I tend to gravitate towards high achievers only”. Make sure to say this in a very cocky but playful and fun attitude.

You can address the men in the set and use friendly, but subtly condescending remarks to exhibit superior social value to them like:

Hey big guy. Its use in the field.

Pat one of the male’s  shoulders once and then say:

“Hey big guy so are you the leader of the pack here?  Good man Good man! I guess I better watch it huh?”

Excuse me boss. Its use in the field.

“Excuse me boss, but do you have the time? By the way, cool watch chief”

Good man! Good man!. Its use in the field.

“So what about you chief, what do you do? A doctor!. Good man! Good man! I hope I never have to meet you on a professional basis”.

Can you feel how very friendly yet subtly condescending these remarks are?

Think about who makes such remarks. That’s right! A big brother to his little brother. A boss to his employee. A coach to one of his players or A mentor to one of his proteges.

As a result, you will quickly establish yourself as the “One” who is of higher social value compared to the other male members of the social circle, since you exhibited such dominance over them from both your non-verbals and the way you spoke to them.

Got it? Good.

So remember, the first thing you must do when you walk into a social situation is to own it. Own it with your presence, clothing style, body language, charisma, dominance over the other male members, social proof from other women, louder than life attitude and vocal projection, ultra colorful vocal tonality and facial expressions, dominant piercing gaze, sly smile, cool walk and stance, etc.

Bottom line-You maybe 5′7″ but you need to be 20 ft tall with your personality, attitude and body language.

Unfortunately most guys don’t do this. They have been taught to go up to a large social circle and spit out an opener that attempts to engage all of its members. Let me tell you that it doesn’t matter how engaging the content of your opener is or how interesting you are. This is secondary in terms of importance!

People, especially those that are occupied by the company of their closest and most endeared friends, acquaintances and contacts will only give you the time of day, if you dominate them and come as a more powerful source of positive energy, than the collective sum of all of their social circle members. Makes sense? Great!

Now you don’t really have to dominate the females in the set who may be the girlfriends, co workers or acquaintances of your object of desire but you will want to execute the next step on both the women and the men in the large group which is to

2. Divide and Conquer the social circle.

What this means is simply to “peel them off”, one by one and get them on your side, so that they don’t put up any resistance to you isolating your object of desire later on, to build comfort with her and to get intimate with her.

You started to do this with the males by a combination of exerting dominance over them and demonstrating superior social value but also by being super duper friendly. In other words, you presented yourself as someone who is generous, cool, friendly and warm but also someone they should associate with, as it will force them to aspire to become better men.

In other words, the social dynamic that you set up here is like Student-Teacher or Big brother-Little Brother. You follow me? Good!

You now want to also compliment them, to add the finishing touch. So mention how cool their clothes are, how funky their hair styles are, how you have a lot of respect for doctors ( if one of the males mentions that he is one), how warm and generous they are, how grateful you are to be allowed entry into their very tight nest, etc.

Remember, stroking someone’s ego in a very calculated way like this is one of the most powerful ways to get them to adore you. It is also a behavior that is very leader-like because only a true “Alpha tribal leader” who is unaffected by others is able to give true genuine compliments to others. Furthermore, a person of higher value typically gives compliments to those of lower value because it has greater value, importance and effect than if delivered by someone of low social value.

For the women in the set, compliment them as well. Specifically put your focus on their hairstyles, their clothing, their jewellery and on their personalities.

The dynamic you set up here is one of a potentially great friend. In other words, the women in the group should think of you as the most dashing, charismatic, cultured, respectful and interesting man they have ever encountered. Think about the logistical advantage to this. Of course, they will not put up resistance to you isolating your object of desire later on and getting comfy and even intimate with her.

I mean why would they? You just blew them out of the water with your personality and they always dreamed of having someone like you in their lives as a male friend, a component of their social circle since it will raise its social value and as a partner to their friend ( your object of desire).

So can you see how you walk into a social circle as a “no name brand”  and initially as a perceived threat but then walk out with each member revering you and wanting to associate with you? That’s what I am talking about

Once again, this is essential in setting up the framework to successfully isolating your target with 0% resistance from the social circle, later on.

3. Demonstrate value to the group

The last thing you must do to really cap your ownership of the set, is to add value to them.

In fact now you can spit out a cool question or exhibit a “DHV “or demonstration of higher value with a greater chance that the group will be receptive to it, whereas if you had simply opened with such a thing as most men have been taught to do, you would have gotten blown out. Remember, you need to dominate and then divide and conquer first as this puts you in a position to warrant respect and attention to whatever you say or do.

* You can then transition into a cool story

* Demonstrate your knowledge of hand analysis

* Tell the group jokes-Remember laughter besides food when shared with someone really creates a bond

This sort of the icing on the cake is necessary to make you more digestible to the group over the long term. Remember, if all you are is a dominating Alpha superman then you will not present yourself as one who others can relate to. You need to also ensure that you are fun, quirky, interesting, funny, etc. In other words someone that the other members can gel with and vibe with. Remember a great leader is also someone who can connect with the common folk.

Now, the consequence of all of this will be that the social circle will be at your mercy and will start to adore you. Hence, they will not put up any resistance to you isolating your object of desire later on. In fact, they will now support the two of you hooking up because it will mean that you will come around more often and that they will get to hang with you.

Recall-Everyone wants a fun, interesting, warm, high social value exhibiting leader around them.

At the same time your object of desire will start to feel sexual attraction for you because while in set you would have subtly ignored her or at least acted indifferent towards her which is so against the grain of what she is used to from most men, while focusing more on her social circle and winning them over. Remember, peer approval for a woman means everything. It can literally make or break your chances with her.

Subsequent to getting your target interested in you, you will “hook” her and get her chasing you(recall the importance of getting a woman to invest in the interaction with you after she starts to display indicators of interest) then isolate her away from the group but still within their view, out of respect for them. You will then qualify her, build comfort with her and then set up a time bridge to seduce her on day 2.

So there you go, there is the thorough breakdown of how to take over a large social circle where your object of desire is located in, using our “Triple D model”.

This is 100% field tested and fail proof.

I hope you will use the “Triple D model” to go out tonight or tomorrow and gain the respect and adoration of some large social units and the attention of their hot female members.

Until next time, get out there and be a Man!

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Well it’s not as hard as you think. From my vast experience in attracting and seducing “hired guns” including exotic dancers, adult entertainers, waitresses, store clerks, etc I have formulated a system of things to do to successfully and consistently get these types of women that men can only drool over and dream about to dream about me and want to be with me, sexually.

I am going to show you how to do that using 10 simple strategies and demonstrate how using these strategies, I successfully picked up a smoking hot, very intelligent, African/Quebecois French exotic dancer on July 30th, 2011 at a famous strip club in Toronto called “Whiskey A Go Go”.

BTW In case you are doubting me, here is a snippet of an actual BBM convo between me Omar Khan and the exotic dancer from Whiskey A Go Go with the BBM alias HBD Andy.

Omarkhan: Can you see this
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HBD Andy !!! <=-P \=D/ <=-P: Hey !!!! :p
Omarkhan: Lol
Omarkhan: Cone say bye to me before I leave after your stage performance
Omarkhan: Come
┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥✽̶̛Lou♡Lou┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥✽̶̛
HBD Andy !!! <=-P \=D/ <=-P: Was nice seeing u! Smiley
Omarkhan: Yes same here
Omarkhan: I’m Omar
Omarkhan: So when you come bacxk let’s do tea or coffee okay
┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥✽̶̛Lou♡Lou┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥✽̶̛
HBD Andy !!! <=-P \=D/ <=-P: For sure i’ll let u know when I come bck! ;Wink
Omarkhan: Okay so how much longer you working at Pro Cafe tonight
Omarkhan: I don’t like it it is dead
Omarkhan: I like Whiskey
Omarkhan: So your name is Marie
┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥✽̶̛Lou♡Lou┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥✽̶̛
HBD Andy !!! <=-P \=D/ <=-P: Yes Marie-XXXXXXXX!
Omarkhan: Oui oui non amee
Omarkhan: Mon
┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥✽̶̛Lou♡Lou┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥✽̶̛
HBD Andy !!! <=-P \=D/ <=-P: It’s toooooo dead…(=|
Omarkhan: Yes it is
┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥✽̶̛Lou♡Lou┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥✽̶̛
HBD Andy !!! <=-P \=D/ <=-P: Maybe i’ll leave earlier to go to mtl
┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥✽̶̛Lou♡Lou┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥✽̶̛
HBD Andy !!! <=-P \=D/ <=-P: *montreal
Omarkhan: Really
Omarkhan: How you getting there
┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥✽̶̛Lou♡Lou┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥✽̶̛
HBD Andy !!! <=-P \=D/ <=-P: Yes i’m bored and tired
Omarkhan: Plane
┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥✽̶̛Lou♡Lou┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥✽̶̛
HBD Andy !!! <=-P \=D/ <=-P: No driving!
Omarkhan: Wow
Omarkhan: You or you have a driver
Omarkhan: :p
Omarkhan: K msg me when you’re back
┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥✽̶̛Lou♡Lou┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥✽̶̛
HBD Andy !!! <=-P \=D/ <=-P: We are driving me and my girl
Omarkhan: Cool
Omarkhan: Have a safe trip
┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥✽̶̛Lou♡Lou┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥✽̶̛
HBD Andy !!! <=-P \=D/ <=-P: (y) thx
Omarkhan: Too bad you couldn’t spend time having a coffee or something with me you would have had a blast
┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥✽̶̛Lou♡Lou┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥✽̶̛
HBD Andy !!! <=-P \=D/ <=-P: Ya I know its just that I have things to do in Montreal when I come bck we’ll catch up! Smiley
Omarkhan: Wink

So here are the top 10 strategies to picking up smoking hot exotic dancers!

1. An exotic dancer is deified by most men. Guys at the strip club scream for her, shout for her, beg her to give them some attention, cry like children for her poster(If she is a feature) as she is on the stage dangling it in front of the crowd like a carrot in front of a room full of Rabbits. She will often say “The one who screams the loudest for me or makes the most noise can have this poster”. Low and behold all you hear is a wave of “Loudness” from these desperate chumps.

They get NO respect however or play. They are seen as “Cash Cows” and “Customers” That is all. Why? Because they fed into that “Customer-Hired Gun” social dynamic that she so cleverly set up for herself, to maximize her profit potential.

So rule 1. If you want to stop being the “Customer” and start being the “1 in a million” that an Exotic Dancer or any adult entertainer for that matter will want to cross the business, personal line with, stop treating her as a Goddess or Sex Object.

Start talking to her as a human being, a woman who has a mind, intelligence, values, a viscera and personal interests outside of someone who shows off her body for money.

Also, remember that you need to “give value” first to a woman before she gives value to you in the form of her time, sex, a relationship with her, etc

You are taking value from her because in the context of the Strip Club Game, who is getting most of the value? You are. You are taking value from her, by asking her to dance for you, get naked for you, by asking her out, by buying her drinks which is usually in hopes of getting some a bit later. All this is designed to please you and give you value. What unique “value” are you offering her? Nothing.

Buying her drinks, paying for a lap dance, screaming for her at stage side is just fueling that “Cash Cow” label that she has put on you automatically. You are doing nothing different for her than what other scores of men are doing. Furthermore that is not a good enough reason for her to want to cross that line from seeing you as another loser, Joe-blow customer to a sexually attractive, unique, potential lover.

Therefore, you MUST add value to her to get her to want to see you off the record and off her working premises. How do you do that?

1. DO NOT kiss her ass or worship her but be dominant with her, a leader, take charge.


2. Have superior knowledge to most men. Teach her things about her self, the world, business, sex, her body, psychology, geography, culture, religion. I kid you not when I tell you that Exotic Dancers find “Worldliness” super sexy. They tend to also go for men that are very Alpha, confident, dominant, business savvy, worldly, educated, etc. So be this and not another stupid, blue collar talking and walking a-hole with nothing to offer. Educate yourself.


3. Never ask an exotic dancer for a dance or for anything that will generate profit for her, through an interaction with you. The minute you do that, you will forever be tossed  in the “Loser, customer” pile. Instead, the minute an exotic dancer asks you “Hey baby, you want a dance?”, immediately ignore the fact that she even said that and start to make a comment about her energy, palm structure, teach her things, etc. In other words, dominate the conversational threads and steer them towards the direction that you want to take them. She will be interested and challenged and will not only become attracted to you rather than your wallet but will appreciate you.

Okay moving on to Rule 2.

2. This is how I get an exotic dancer’s attention all the time. If I am by the bar ordering a drink and an exotic dancer comes and stands or sits on the bar chair next to me(This is done intentionally to get my attention), I will act as if she doesn’t exist. I will look over her head, around both sides of her face and smile at imaginary people. She will be surprised and also now challenged by my lack of interest in her to “try to get it” and as we know when you challenge a woman who is not usually, it will naturally attract her.

3. An exotic dancer will always try to shit test you. You must learn how to pass it. For instance before I picked up the Exotic dancer over the weekend, I was first introduced to her friend who was a Filipina-mix-with-German hot number.

During one moment, she said to me “I’m thirsty”, after kissing me a few times on my face. I knew she expected me to buy her a drink or two.

She kissed me because she asked me how I was doing and I said I was in pain because I do boxing, fighting training. BTW state your manliest and most attractive traits to these types of women as they typically like real Alpha, dominant men who are a bit rough around the edges.

Anyways in response to her statement that she was thirsty and knowing that she expected me to say “Oh okay baby, what do you want to drink?” I said to her, “Well there is a homeless guy outside and I can see if he will lend you some of his water”.

She knew that she couldn’t get pass me and that attracted her even more because after her water came from the bartender(From the tap, not even a water bottle), she made me touch her body and said “I have pain here, what do you think?”

So I gave her advice on how to subdue it as I know how to combat sports injury. That further demonstrated that I was worldly and knowledgeable. At this point her girlfriend spotted me being so laid back against the bar, not being phased by her girlfriend in any way, just doing my own thing on my terms and she automatically started talking with me and introduced herself.

4. Exotic Dancers like a “badboy-with a dash of Gentleman”. For instance, ”Sky”, the Exotic Dancer I met on Friday July 20th, 2011 at one strip club (Whiskey A Go Go) and later attracted and whose contact info I procured told me she was going to be at another strip club before heading back to Montreal, Que on Mon which was Pro Cafe. I told her I would see her, before she left.

At this point in time, I did not solidify contact info. I was just talking with her, teaching her things about France, Quebec, Africa, psychology, conspiracy theories etc all the while leaning against the bar with her, acting cool, relaxed. Anyways I told her I had to go but I would see her at Pro Cafe. Well I found out what time she was working at Pro Club until which was 9 pm, so I ventured in there at about 8:30. The reason for this is because I wanted to give her the feeling that it was the last thing I wanted to do on my day of events not the first and truthfully it was. You don’t want to telegraph desperation by barging in to the club just when it opens waiting for Diamond or Cocoa to show up, if you know what I mean? Good.

The point I was trying to make here is that when you say you are going to do something, be somewhere then do it. I kept my word and that showed a lot of character and class. She literally left two guys she was sitting with and having a drink with to come and hug me for 10 minutes as if she was my girl. She must have told me at least 10 times, “I can’t believe you are here. Oh my god! I love a man with class and integrity”. Yes, exotic dancers love a man who makes them feel special, especially if they like him! Note that down!

At this point I simply rebuilt the attraction with her by touching her hands, arms in a very sensual but appropriate way and pushing her away by saying. “K go make some money. I like a woman who knows how to work it. Otherwise I will be your pimp and manage your business operations”. She started to laugh.

After a few more interchanges like this, I got her contact info. She BBM’d me saying “It was great to see you and I will let you know when I am back so we can meet outside of work”.

Once again, the reason why I was able to differentiate myself to this beautiful adult entertainer is because

1) I demonstrated dominance and confidence, by the way I was unreactive to her friend’s sexual charm and manipulation earlier. Her friend was known to literally be a master manipulator of men and I saw the way she persuaded 4 guys to open their wallets to her.

2) She was impressed by the fact that, when I initially met her, I was very polite, respectful, was looking at her and not her body.

3) I told her that I had met many Exotic Dancers and was not impressed with simply beauty but intelligence and personality and so because she was organic, mature and intelligent, I was sticking around to talk to her and not because of her looks or body.

4) I made her laugh with impersonations, role playing, taught her many things about the world, her body, psychology, etc which blew her mind away.

5) Never entertained the thought of paying her even 1 cent for her time. It was more like, I was the higher value member in the interaction and it was in her best interest to want to hang with me. Not the other way around and that is exactly how I was treated and responded to.

5. Exit on a high note and catch up later. Always leave an exotic dancer wanting more and then when you show up again her reaction will mimic the one I got from Sky. Never over welcome your stay as it will telegraph that you have nothing nor anyone to do in your life which is a Beta quality. Be the multi-faceted Alpha male who has a ton of interesting things, people to DO(wink!) in life besides her.

6. The best position to be in at the strip club is legs wide open, resting your foot on either side of a bar stool, Cowboy style, leaning back. This is a more attractive position to be in than standing by the wall with 9 other loser guys like a sardine, all desperately waiting for a stripper to come by and give them a glance. Also, the strip club I go to only seats high rollers on the bar stools. Meaning you will find members of the Hells Angels, Mafia Boss type characters, bad ass mofo looking characters, bouncers when on their dinner break, etc sitting at the bar so that area has an association with higher social order.

7. Behind the bar there are big screen TV’s where they broadcast and display Boxing or MMA fights so I will deliberately sit with my back to the dance floor and to the strippers walking the floor. Think about what that conveys. Of course. I am not desperate for honey. This inevitably attracts the women to tap me on the shoulder and say “Hey sexy, what you don’t like what you see?”, etc.

8. Most strip clubs have “outdoor patios where you can smoke” since you can’t smoke inside such establishments anymore. Well many exotic dancers go out there for poisonous air(To smoke a cigarette) or just to grab some fresh air. Great place to get them while they are relaxed, calm, open to talking. Once again, you need to understand the importance of logistics in seduction, meaning where to go, what to do, where not to go, what to talk about at a certain phase of the courtship process, how to isolate a woman without creeping her out, where to take her after 1 hour of interaction vs 4 hours, etc…

9. Dress a bit Bad Boyish in a strip club as Exotic Dancers, very much like fighting Ringside girls love a man who is a bit rough around the edges with his style and persona. I see too many guys dress in a typical geeky shirt-n-pant combo which is not very manly or oversized clothes which is just plain juvenile. One of my looks when I go out is that of a “Fighter”

For instance, when I was out at Whiskey A Go Go I wore
Faded Grey, straight legged jeans, biker books with fire trails on them. Thank you Harley Davidson
A belt with a thick belt buckle
Long sleeve, black body hugging top
A thick silver neck chain with a skull pendant dangling from it
Plus you need to wear nice cologne. It attracts women . Trust me when I tell you this

A couple of my favorite brands are

Terry D’Hermes, Yves St Laurent, Burberry and Bulgari

10. Keep moving in the club. DO NOT station yourself in one spot. It conveys that you settle and you wait for things. Walk around, make eye contact with people, other guys, girls(Yes there are women who also go to these places, usually with a party of people or with their BFs), the waitresses, other exotic dancers. It conveys a hunter mentality and also that you are dynamic, have energy, are interesting, don’t settle, get bored easily, need to be amused constantly. This does work to your advantage in this environment in particular.

Hope this helps

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