Well it’s not as hard as you think. From my vast experience in attracting and seducing “hired guns” including exotic dancers, adult entertainers, waitresses, store clerks, etc I have formulated a system of things to do to successfully and consistently get these types of women that men can only drool over and dream about to dream about me and want to be with me, sexually.

I am going to show you how to do that using 10 simple strategies and demonstrate how using these strategies, I successfully picked up a smoking hot, African/Quebecois French exotic dancer on July 30th, 2011 at a famous strip club in Toronto called Whiskey A Go Go.

BTW In case you are doubting me, here is a snippet of an actual BBM convo between me Omar Khan and the exotic dancer from Whiskey A Go Go with the BBM alias HBD Andy.

Omarkhan: Can you see this
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HBD Andy !!! <=-P \=D/ <=-P: Hey !!!! :p
Omarkhan: Lol
Omarkhan: Cone say bye to me before I leave after your stage performance
Omarkhan: Come
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HBD Andy !!! <=-P \=D/ <=-P: Was nice seeing u! Smiley
Omarkhan: Yes same here
Omarkhan: I'm Omar
Omarkhan: So when you come bacxk let's do tea or coffee okay
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HBD Andy !!! <=-P \=D/ <=-P: For sure i'll let u know when I come bck! ;Wink
Omarkhan: Okay so how much longer you working at Pro Cafe tonight
Omarkhan: I don't like it it is dead
Omarkhan: I like Whiskey
Omarkhan: So your name is Marie
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HBD Andy !!! <=-P \=D/ <=-P: Yes Marie-XXXXXXXX!
Omarkhan: Oui oui non amee
Omarkhan: Mon
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HBD Andy !!! <=-P \=D/ <=-P: It's toooooo dead...(=|
Omarkhan: Yes it is
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HBD Andy !!! <=-P \=D/ <=-P: Maybe i'll leave earlier to go to mtl
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HBD Andy !!! <=-P \=D/ <=-P: *montreal
Omarkhan: Really
Omarkhan: How you getting there
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HBD Andy !!! <=-P \=D/ <=-P: Yes i'm bored and tired
Omarkhan: Plane
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HBD Andy !!! <=-P \=D/ <=-P: No driving!
Omarkhan: Wow
Omarkhan: You or you have a driver
Omarkhan: :p
Omarkhan: K msg me when you're back
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HBD Andy !!! <=-P \=D/ <=-P: We are driving me and my girl
Omarkhan: Cool
Omarkhan: Have a safe trip
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HBD Andy !!! <=-P \=D/ <=-P: (y) thx
Omarkhan: Too bad you couldn't spend time having a coffee or something with me you would have had a blast
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HBD Andy !!! <=-P \=D/ <=-P: Ya I know its just that I have things to do in Montreal when I come bck we'll catch up! Smiley
Omarkhan: Wink

So here are the top 10 strategies to picking up smoking hot exotic dancers!

1. An exotic dancer is deified by most men. Guys at the strip club scream for her, shout for her, chant at her, beg her to give them some attention, cry like children for her poster(If she is a feature) and she is on the stage dangling it in front of the crowds face. She will often say “The one who screams the loudest for me or makes the most noise can have this poster”. Low and behold all you hear is a wave of “Loudness” from these desperately seeking little boys.

They get NO respect however or play. They are seen as “Cash Cows” and “Customers” That is all. Why? Because they fed into that “Customer-Hired Gun” Dynamic that she so cleverly set up to maximize her potential.

So rule 1. If you want to stop being the “Customer” and start being the 1 in a million that an Exotic Dancer or any adult entertainer for that matter will start seeing with a twinkle in her eye, stop treating her as a Goddess or Sex Object.

Start talking to her as a human being, a woman who has a mind, intelligence, values, a viscera, personal interests outside of showing off her body for money.

Also, remember that you need to “Give Value” first to a woman before she gives value to you in the form of her time, sex, a relationship with her, etc

You are there taking value from her because in the context of the Strip Club Game, who is getting most of the value. You are. You are taking value from her, by asking her to dance for you, get naked for you, by asking her out, by buying her drinks which is usually in hopes of getting some a bit later. All this is designed to please you and give you value. What unique “Value” are you offering her? Nothing

Buying her drinks, paying for a lap dance, screaming for her at stage side is just fueling that “Cash Cow” label that she has put on you automatically. You are doing nothing different for her than what other scores of men are doing. Furthermore that is not a good enough reason for her to want to cross that line from seeing you as another loser, jo-blow to a sexually attractive, unique, potential lover

Therefore, you MUST add value to her to get her to want to see you off the record and off her working premises. How do you do that?

1. DO NOT kiss her ass or worship her but be dominant with her, a leader, take charge.
2. Have superior knowledge to most men. Teach her things about her self, the world, business, sex, her body, psychology, geography culture, religion. I kid you not when I tell you that Exotic Dancers find “Worldliness” super sexy. They tend to also go for men that are very Alpha, confident, dominant, business savvy, worldly, educated, etc. So be this and not another stupid, blue collar talking and walking asshole with nothing to offer. Educate yourself.
3. Never ask an exotic dancer for a dance or for anything that will generate profit for her, through an interaction with you. The minute you do that, you are forever in the “Loser, customer” pile.

Okay moving on to Rule 2.

2. This is how I get an exotic dancer’s attention all the time. If I am by the bar ordering a drink and an exotic dancer comes and stands or sits on the bar chair next to me(This is done intentionally to get my attention). I will act as if she doesn’t exist. I will look over her head, around both sides of her face and smile at imaginary people. She will be surprised and also now challenged and as we know when you challenge a woman who is not usually, it will naturally attract her.

Specifically she will actually try to proactively get your attention and that is always a good thing in the area of inter-sexual communication and seduction mastery!

3. An exotic dancer will always try to shit test you. You must learn how to pass it. For instance before I picked up the Exotic dancer over the weekend, I was first introduced to her friend who was a Philipina-mix-with-German.

During one moment, she said to me “I’m thirsty, after kissing me a few times on my face”

She kissed me because she asked me how I was doing and I said I was in pain because I do boxing, fighting training. BTW state your manliest and most attractive traits to these types of women indirectly as they want a real, Alpha, dominant male who is a bit rough around the edges.

Anyways in response to her statement that she was thirsty and knowing that she expected me to say “OH okay baby, what do you want to drink?” I said to her, well there is a homeless guy outside and I can see if he will lend you some of his water.

She knew that she couldn’t get pass me and that attracted her even more because after her water came from the bartender(From the tap, not even a water bottle). she made me touch her body and said “I have pain here, what do you think?”

So I gave her advice on how to subdue it as I know how to combat sports injury. That further demonstrated that I was worldly and knowledgeable. At this point her Girlfriend spotted me being so laid back against the bar, not being phased by her girlfriend in any way, just doing my own thing on my terms and she automatically started talking with me and introduced herself.

4. Exotic Dancers like a badboy with a “Gentlemanly quality and integrity”. For instance, I met let’s call her “Sky”, the Exotic Dancer I met on Friday July 20th, 2011 at One Strip Club (Whiskey A Go Go) and later attracted and whose contact info I procured. She told me she was going to be at another strip club before heading back to Montreal, Que on Mon which was Pro Cafe. I told her I would see her.

At this point in time, I did not solidify contact info. I was just talking with her, teaching her things about France, Quebec, Africa, psychology, conspiracy theories etc all the while leaning against the bar with her, acting cool, relaxed. Anyways I told her I had to go but I would see her at Pro Cafe. Well I found out what time she was working at Pro Club until which was 9 pm, so I ventured in there at about 8:30. The reason for this is because I wanted to give her the feeling that it was the last thing on my day of events not the first. You don’t want to telegraph desperation.

However the point I was trying to make here is that when you say you are going to do something, be somewhere then do it. I kept my word and that showed a lot of character and class. She literally left two guys she was sitting with and having a drink with to come and hug me for 10 minutes as if she was my girl. She must have told me at least 10 times, “I can’t believe you are here. Oh my god! I love a man with class and integrity”. Yes, exotic dancers love a man who makes them feel special, especially if they like him! Note that down guys!

At this point I simply rebuilt the attraction with her by touching her hands, arms in a very sensual but appropriate way and pushing her away by saying. “K go make some money. I like a woman who knows how to work it. Otherwise I will be your pimp and manage your business operations”. She started to laugh.

Anyways after a few more interchanges like this, brief but hot I got her contact info. She BBM’d me saying “It was great to see you and I will let you know when I am back so we can meet outside of work”

Once again, the reason why I was able to differentiate myself to this beautiful adult entertainer is because

1) I demonstrated dominance and confidence by the way I was not reactive to her friends sexual charm and manipulation earlier. Her friend was known to literally be a master manipulator of men and I saw the way she persuaded 4 guys to open their wallets to her.

2) She was impressed that when I initially met her, I was very polite, respectful, was looking at her and not her body.

3) I told her that I had met many Exotic Dancers and was not impressed with simply beauty but intelligence and personality and so because she was organic, mature and intelligent, I was sticking around to talk to her and not because of her looks or body.

4) I made her laugh with impersonations, role playing, taught her many things about the world, her body, psychology, etc which blew her mind away.

5) Never entertained the thought of paying her even 1 cent for her time. It was more like, I was the higher value member in the interaction and it was in her best interest to want to hang with me. Not the other way around and that is exactly how I was treated and responded to.

5. Exit on a high note and catch up later. Always leave an exotic dancer wanting more and then when you show up again her reaction will mimic the one I got from Sky. Never over welcome your stay as it will telegraph that you have nothing nor anyone to do in your life which is a Beta quality. Be the multi-faceted Alpha male who has a ton of interesting things, people to DO(wink!) in life besides her.

6. The best position to be in at the strip club is legs wide open, resting your foot on either side of a bar stool, Cowboy style, leaning back. This is a more attractive position to be in than standing by the wall with 9 other loser guys like a sardine, all desperately waiting for a stripper to come by and give them a glance. Also, the strip I go to only seats high rollers on the bar stools. Meaning you will find members of the Hells Angels, Mafia Boss type characters, bad ass mofo looking characters, bouncers when on their dinner break, etc sitting at the bar so that area has an association with higher social order.

7. Behind the bar there are big screen TV’s where they broadcast and display Boxing or MMA fights so I will deliberately sit with my back to the dance floor and to the strippers walking the floor. Think about what that conveys. Of course. I am not desperate for honey. This inevitably attracts the women to tap me on the shoulder and say “Hey sexy, what you don’t like what you see?”, etc.

8. Most strip clubs have “outdoor patios where you can smoke” since you can’t smoke inside such establishments anymore. Well many exotic dancers go out there for poisonous air(To smoke a cigarette) or just to grab some fresh air. Great place to get them while they are relaxed, calm, open to talking. Once again, you need to understand the importance of logistics in seduction,

Meaning, where to go, what to do, where not to go, what to talk about at this phase of the courtship process, how to isolate a woman without creeping her out, where to take her after 1 hour of interaction vs 4 hours, etc

9. Dress a bit Bad Boyish in a strip club as Exotic Dancers, very much like fighting Ringside girls love a man who is a bit rough around the edges with his style and persona. I see too many guys dress in a typical geeky Shirt-n-pant combo which is not very manly or oversized clothes which is just plain juvenile. One of my looks when I go out is that of a “Fighter”

For instance, when I was out at Whiskey A Go Go I wore
Faded Grey, straight legged jeans, biker books with fire trails on them. Thank you Harley Davidson
A belt with a thick belt buckle
Long sleeve, black body hugging Top
A thick silver neck chain with a skull pendant dangling from it
Plus you need to wear nice cologne. It attracts women . Trust me when I tell you this

A couple of my favorite brands are

Terry D’Hermes, Yves St Laurent, Burberry and Bulgari

10. Keep moving in the club. DO NOT station yourself in one spot. It conveys that you settle and you wait for things. Walk around, make eye contact with people, other guys, girls(Yes there are women who also go to these places, usually with a party of people or with their BF’s), the waitresses, other exotic dancers. It conveys a hunter mentality and also that you are dynamic, have energy, are interesting, don’t settle, get bored easily, need to be amused constantly. This does work to your advantage in this environment in particular.

Hope this helps

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Here is a routine I use all the time, I have coined “The Future Expectation of Touch” Tactic to make a woman both expect and crave to be touched by me, with 0% resistance.

Here is how to apply it.

Let’s say that you have a wonderful interaction with a woman, whereby you know that you have solidified her feelings for you into sexual attraction, not merely attraction,(This is done by getting her to chase you, because a woman will not feel sexual attraction for you nor be open to sleeping with you, until and unless you make her invest in the interaction)you have qualified her, but due to logistical pitfalls or external circumstances you are not able to isolate her to a place to get intimate with her and you are not sure how to escalate your touch with her, what to do?

Here is what you do. First you will set up a time bridge, or a future date with her right then and there so that you can carry on the seduction process but simultaneously implant a future expectation of touch so that she expects it with no resistance from you by engaging in some physically engaging role playing with her which will allow you to touch her right then and there as well.

Here are the steps to do this.

You can say to her.

1. ” Okay Gina, you are cool and because of that you can hang out with me. So here is what you are going to do. You are going to give me your number and I am going to call you in a few days.”

2. “You will come out with me(You can bring your friends along if you wish and I can bring mine) and we are going to go to a Spanish Club. Then when this song comes on( Think of a hot Salsa number) I am going to take you by the hand just like this ( Softly place your hands on hers, graze them gently and then lock your palm with hers).”

3. “Then I am going to do this. Stand up( Get her to stand up if she is not already standing up). I am going to put my arm around your waist just like this( Actually demonstrate this for her)”

4. “Then we are going to go on the dance floor and rock it baby. Now you need to keep in step with me and dance in rhythm with me okay? If you step on my feet, it’s okay however you are only allowed to fumble twice. The third time and I am going to ( Then gently tap her on her behind)”

Most women I say this to actually start to get a bit giddy and laugh!

Remember, to sport a very flirtatious facial expression when saying this.

You can then say.

5. “Now I am very physically expressive when I dance and do get a bit over zealous because I love to Salsa. Is that okay with you or no?

You can add if you wish. ”

6. “Also the kind of women I find most compatible with me as dance partners are those that are also comfortable with their own sexuality and physical on the dance floor. So if you are going to get all weird on me and crap my style by being inhibited, then we can end this on a high note and remain good friends” ( wink at her after saying this)

She will say: ” No I am fine with this” to prevent herself from being labeled and feeling like a prude.

See what you are doing however? You are not only escalating your touch with her right then and there but also setting up the pretense that you are a physical guy, expressive with your sexuality and like women who are also open and comfortable with theirs. This will convey that you have standards. Furthermore, it will set up a perfectly “okay” future expectation in her mind of being touched by you.

Then when you meet her, she already expects you to be physical and that you will touch her and so the possibility of your physical advances towards her being enthusiastically accepted and not rejected become incredibly high.

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McMaax
www.maaximumseduction.com