A lot of men seem to “miss the point” on what to do after they open or initiate a conversation with a woman or group of women. In other words, they immediately try to force a woman to feel a bond and connection with them How?

By asking her a barrage of boring personal questions like “So what’s your name sugar plum?” or “Hey do you have a boyfriend?”. Other common questions include “What is your nationality?”, “What’s your name?” or “You live around here?”. I guess these poor souls think that she will enthusiastically jump at the chance of allowing them to get to know her. Not quite!

Think about it. Why would a woman divulge such personal information about herself to someone that she barely knows or knows a bit more than a hole in the wall?

Other men will undeservedly over complement her by telling her how beautiful she is, or how badly they want to take her out and be with her, as if she hasn’t heard this before. They mistakenly think that she will succumb to these “sweet nothings” and reciprocate these deep feelings of want and desire back on to them. If this were true then every loser on the show “Blind date” would have gotten some rub down action from his date, after delivering such sweet and sappy sentiments.

Lastly, other men will talk about how much money they make, what kind of cars they drive, elaborate on the the cumulative square foot value of their dwellings, brag about their jobs and so on thinking that it will impress a woman and get her all hot and bothered! Couldn’t be further from the truth actually.

Once again, why would a woman care about knowing your personal details especially when you have no emotional value to her. In addition, women do not jolt with excitement when they are fed boring, logical and factual information, because it has no emotional value to them. Don’t believe me? Well then let me ask you, when was the last time a woman wanted to get with you after you told her the type of rims you have on your car? We will address the importance of engaging a woman’s emotions below

Most men violate this cardinal rule of inter-sexual communication and therefore fail to score with women!

In any given interaction between two people, the one that is seeking rapport with the other is of lower value and women are not sexually attracted to men that are lower on the social value ladder than they are. Furthermore, a woman will only bond and connect with a man who gets her to want to bond and connect with him first. This especially applies to women of exceptional beauty and quality. Lastly, a woman does ultimately want to bond and connect with a man because it is the precursor step to mating and forging a sexual relationship with him which all women ultimately want, however she only wants to mate with a male who has attractive qualities. What this means is that we must first attract her!

How do we do this? Let’s now talk about….

Attraction for men vs women represents two totally different things.

What are men attracted to? Well that’s pretty isn’t it. She is on the cover of Vogue, with a curvacious body, long legs, firm breasts and a gorgeous set of Betty Davis eyes. That’s right! We base our attraction on whether or not a woman’s fitness indicators demonstrate child bearing potential or high replication value. If a woman’s breast to waist ratio and hip to leg ratio exhibit visual signs of health and fitness then we cannot help it but to associate high replication value to her and feel sexual attraction to her. This stems from the primitive tribal period when it was absolutely imperative for us to seek out and mate with only those females who were physically, emotionally and psychologically fit to be able to endure the ever stressful pregnancy process and in nurturing our young in an ever more so harsh environment, while we were busy in the harsh and barren landscape hunting and gathering for food and other resources to bring back to our tribe as well as fending off any vicious predators in the surroundings. In the long run, the real benefit in seeking out and mating with a fit and healthy female was that it increased the chances of the survival of our progeny over successive generations.

Now, what about women? What are they attracted to? Let’s journey back in time once again. The females within these small tribal units that we used to inhabit were attracted to only those males that had confidence, dominance and leadership skills and who were brave enough to venture out into the dangerous landscape to hunt and gather for food and other resources, in spite of the chance of encountering predators. Most of the males of the tribe were weak, fearful, doubtful, lacked confidence and were not willing to take risks. Their vocal projections were weak and soft, they spoke in a fast paced nervous vocal phrasing manner, their facial expressions were monotonous and stiff as were their vocal tonalities, they kept their arms and legs close to their body when they walked as a protective mechanism, they would avoid direct eye contact when speaking with another member of the tribe, etc. In other words they had real weak non-verbals. As a result these males were labeled Beta. The term Beta is used to describe a set of traits and characteristics that are not conducive to survival. Hence, an accurate label for these males.

Now, lucky for the tribe and for the females there was another type of male that lived within this tribal unit. He was labeled as the Alpha male. As you can probably guess the term Alpha is used to describe a set of traits and non verbal behaviors that are very conducive to survival. Specifically confidence, dominance and leadership. This male, as we stated above was brave, courageous, a risk taker and overall a real bad ass! He wasn’t afraid of physical pain or even death and he would go out with confidence and successfully hunt and gather for food and other resources for his tribe as well as kill off any predators without any problem. Furthermore, his non-verbal communication telegraphed this attitude. He would speak with volume and power, take up space with his arms and legs when he stood and walked, make piercing eye contact when he spoke to another tribal member, animate his vocal tonality and facial expressions, etc. In fact because of his superior psychological and physiological make up, he would render the predators fearful of him and garnish adoration and respect from his fellow Beta tribesmen. Consequently, because of his attitude and body language, he had a lot of “survival value” to the females. In other words, by associating with him and mating with him, a female had a much greater chance of survival.

Furthermore, if by mating with this male, the resultant progeny was of the male sex, then there would be a great chance that he would have all of the Alpha traits and mannerisms from the male parent. This would give him an advantage in surviving and replicating by way of being able to successfully attract the females in his generation to want to align themselves with him, meaning to bond and connect and then ultimately mate with him. Ultimately this would ensure the propagation of the genetic material of the female from the first generation.

So till this day, women are hard wired to only bond and connect with men that first demonstrate that they are Alpha and have high survival value to ensure the long term survival of their DNA , as well as emotional value(I explain this below). Make sense? Good!

Now how can we use this knowledge to attract a woman and get her to want to bond and connect and ultimately forge a sexual relationship with us?

1. Demonstrate Alpha body language-Speak with volume and dominance, take up space with your arms and legs when you stand and walk, animate your facial expressions and tonality just as your tribal Alpha male ancestor used to to.

2. Gather social proof from other women-Just as your tribal Alpha male forefather did. Remember he would have all the females in the tribe gravitate towards him. Because of his superior genetic status. So also when you walk into a social venue with a woman on your arms, or let other women see you chatting up and engaging the bartender or other female patrons, it will resonate within them that you too must be Alpha.

3. Demonstrate leadership over other men- Just as your tribal Alpha male forefather did. Remember, he was the leader of the land, amongst his beta male tribesmen and over the predators. So when we demonstrate superior body language, charisma, confidence, intelligence, social adaptability, worldliness, education, ambition, style, etc to all of the other males in a particular social venue, it will resonate within a woman’s Reptilian brain(That part which processes our behavior and filters it as Alpha or Beta to ultimately invoke attraction or not)that we are the Alpha King and consequently get her hot but only for you.

4. Break rapport with a woman-Remember in any interaction between two people, the one who is seeking rapport is of lower value and the one breaking it is of higher. This is why teasing a woman, challenging her sex appeal and attractiveness is an attraction sparker. You need to learn how to playfully tease a woman. Remember to be very tongue-and-cheek when you throw out a backhanded compliment and really only use it if you detect that a woman has a bitch shield or if she is surrounded by a large group to disengage their concerns that you are there to offer your services as a potential sperm donor to her.

5. Now in addition to exhibiting “survival value”, we need to demonstrate “emotional value”. In other words, we need to engage a woman’s emotions because in case you haven’t heard, women love to have their emotions engaged. This is due to the fact that they have a much larger Limbic system than we do. This is the brain structure that is responsible for processing emotions

So rather than introduce conversational threads packed with logical and linear bits of information, talk about things that are emotionally engaging.

This means to drop the topic of YOU(your job, your car, your finances) and rather demonstrate your knowledge of magic, palm analysis, The Tantric arts, massage, social dynamics, world travel, exotic wines, erotic hand massage, etc. You do this, and you will have given a woman an emotional experience that she craves for, day in and out.

Once we demonstrate high survival and emotional value, then a woman will be open to forming a bond and connection with us and in fact in many cases will start the rapport building process first. How? By asking us rapport style questions, complementing us, and divulging personal information about herself voluntarily.-Talk about turning the tables around! We need to, to attract and seduce women of beauty and quality!

Enjoy.

McMaax

http://www.maaximumseduction.com

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